recently I found that I am becoming obsessed with being looket at, being watched. Even when I'm immersed in the deepest depression, a stranger's gaze carries the promise of lifting my spirit. It happens most often on the train (locked in one carriage on the 12 minute ride to London Bridge). I don't make a pretty sight when I'm on the train - with my winter cycling gear, light reflector jacket and the like. But when there's a person there i'm intersted in, i find myself taking off my crush helmet, my wooly hat; looking through the window, and hoping that the eyes are resting on me, even for a little while. Sometimes the look of mysterious beauty - direct, flirtitious, examining - comes without warning, unsolicited, when all around me is black water. I think this obessession intensified since i started life modelling.
Life modelling is really interesting. I've been drawing for years but only two months ago I crossed the lines and found myself on the other side of the canvass. It was very strange. Suddenly I felt the dynamics of power at work. I am the only person naked; around me, circling me, are dressed men and women. There are moments I feel enraged, powerless, used. Other times i feel empowered, i'm loving it. I'm asking in my head: why am i the only one naked? why would most of them not even consider taking their clothes off to be drawn? why aren't they interested in makeing themselves present in front of others, in beiing seen by others? one of the best things about being a model is that moment in the break, when I go around and I see how they made me. I learn who i am; sometimes it's harsh and upleasant, sometimes more easy to deal with.
It's a job. I get paid to do this. So even when I feel reclusive and all I want to be is a hermit crab, i have to slip out of the shell, cycle down the hill, go in there and take my clothes off. To be a good model, I think you have to engage with the people around you with your presence. you can't really hide. in this sense it's good for me - and it usually makes me feel better. but then i'm worried, if these looks and attention are not just shaking my balance, and making me dependant on them, a slow addiction starts.

when the time is ripe, anything can bring you down. Yesterday it was the doors of King's College Library, which closed with a big bang in my face because I forgot to bring the right card. Today it was a confrontation with G. in the morning over his excessive noise levels. in both cases, the feeling that someone treats you like scum is - in my present condition - dilapidating. I feel like cycling into a truck might be the best thing to do.

i imagine him as a major in the British Army, in Simla or some other hill station, a Raj relic. with his hat covering an almost bald head, his short moustache and reserved and disinterested manner. He must be at least 70 years old; of course, not quite old to have been in Simla.
the class - at the college, not far from the Elephant - takes place every Friday. I am a newcomer; most of them have been coming for years. When he read the names on the list (we are all sitted on our back heels, it usually comes halfway through the class) he doesn't wait to hear the 'yes' to know they're there. I am almost the only non-British student, but I'm not the only one finding his 'quintessentially English understatement' amusing, the giggles make me suspect it is deliberately exaggerated; When we struggled to keep our feet in the air, he said once "now lower the feet to the ground, almost reluctantly".
Today, as we were doing rotation movements from a half-lotus position, he said - be careful, we don't want to cause any unnecessary - what's the word?
pain, someone suggested.
He pondered for a few seconds.
no, distress, he said finally. That's the word. We don't want to cause any unnecessary distress. Now if you're happy with this half-lotus position - or at the very least not terribly unhappy...
and so on.
very often, his classes are the only refuge from the chaos in my head.

it seems like the initial report was wrong: the update is that court ruled that the grove cannot be pulled down, only 'trimmed'. I hope this doesn't mean mangling. sometimes things don't take the worst possible course. no reason for optimism, but the trees might be spared. and this is good.

it is an ongoing dillema, how much i want to relate - in this blog - to political questions regarding the Israel/Palestine "situation" (as it is referred to, in Hebrew, in Arabic). It's not because i'm not there so I don't care. The main reason for my reluctance is that i want to avoid is to let politics - in the sense of what we hear about in the news, which is actually just a narrow slice of what is really going on - take over. I've seen it happen in other blogs and i don't like it much. the power of blogging is that everything comes from your little corner of the world, your desk, your perspective, your eyes. This is what gives it validity, this is what makes it interesting. once you start quoting and linking and arguing... well, you just get swept into discussions which force you to use other people's words. They frame your mind and it's a trap very difficult to free yourself from.
on the other hand, it's difficult not to say anything. like everybody from that place, I have strong views on the situation, I often find myself enraged, terrified, despaired. I feel i need to say something, i ought to say something. So I will give it a place here, but i'm not going to let it take over. pledge¬
maybe when i ever get to work on the design of this blog i will give it a seperate column box or whatever. it's mainly going to be links to other places: read for yourself and see what you're thinking.
anyway-^>
i read today that the israeli supreme court approved the uprooting of a grove, owned by an old palestinian woman, which happens to be very close to the house of the Israeli defence minister, Mofaz. The Israeli military say that the grove is a good hiding spot for possible attacks on his house. The israeli newspaper Haaretz published an article about this grove a few months ago (see here). There's absolutely nothing nice i can say about Mofaz, or about the place he lives in, an elitist sleep-village, the american suburban dream, which happens to be in israel. There's much nicer things i can say about orange, tangarine, and guava trees, and about a 72 year old woman who fights for them.
forestation used to be an important part of the zionist ethos of colonization. the green valleys on the israeli side of the 67' border were always compared to the barren hills of the West Bank, giving israelis a sense of superiority and moral justification. i wonder if this line was dropped after four years of systematic uprooting of citrus and olive groves. but i've said enough. read for yourselves.

palpable

sometimes it rains for hours, she said, and sometimes, it rains for days on end. There's not much you can do about it then. I noticed - for the very first time, I think - a red band holding her hair together.
we spoke about presence, manifestation. I used the word emergence. For months now I've had the image of crossing a threshold in my head. I thought of it as stepping inside. What it is then, this thing that is stopping you, she asked. Does it become easier? suddenly, what had been a transparent but impenetrable wall became painfully visible. I thought of it as a ball of clay and stone, turning to rubble. Yes, I felt it disintegrating, and it hurt.

the moment of awareness, she says, is something to hold on to.

Medina sings the blues. Behind her, a National Geographic Political Map of the World. The light reflects on the wall, creating a shining spot which covers East Africa, where M. spent almost a whole year. Just as well, I think: I resent the globe in this form, sliced up and annotated. This map makes things look simple: colours, borderlines, names of places; oceans, islands, states. Everything labeled, everything simple, everything too neat. She sings the blues. the soundman calls himself planetman; but the sound is not much better than the political map.
She's a natural performer. She makes jokes with the audience. she forgets her own lyrics but she doesn't get confused. She starts over-melodramatic, but she eases into it; when she sings "I will survive" the audience is all hers; the last song, 'No More, is super-catchy, a sure hit. I wonder if there will come a day when her face will be on bill boards.
It's a small pub off King's Cross. Surprisingly cozy, stacked with book-shelves and armchairs. The crowd is mixed: her schoolmates from SOAS; Muslim connections; housemates like us, and other admirers. Everybody seems beautiful to my happy-eyes, but i'm just in a good mood; even the approaching fight with S. - one that we ended up not having - does not get to me. i just feel funny, hiding in the corner, just hoping no one will insist on introducing all these people to me.